Blog Terror Time:
I was reminded of the subject matter again so I am posting the inflammatory post that I was reluctant to post last week...and as an added bonus, I am going to vent about something else in the same post completely unrelated. SO AWAY WE GO......
(This was originally written September 21st)
"I have to do it, I didnt want to, but I have to. I feel compelled to vent for a minute and this is going to sound like pro athletes bitching they don't get paid enough; so if you're going to get irritated about this just skip this post.
How does someone whose family has a little bit of money ever get a girl without people thinking she's with him because of his money? People have said this at the inception of every relationship I have had. "Oh, she's just with him for the money". My question to you all is "how do you know?". I mean if I marry someone and stay married all my life and buy her big diamonds and fancy cars, did she stay with me fifty years because I had money? Or do you never buy the person you care about anything at all at the risk of people saying "there it is, see she is just getting stuff out of him". I help people gets cars and rolexes and whatever else because I care about them and I know they don't expect it from me. I know most of you can't fathom spending one red cent on anyone except yourself, but don't worry about it, those of you who know me know that I don't exactly want for anything. Plus, if I thought they expected it or were hoping I would buy it for them, forget it.
Well, I have decided I heard it for the last time yesterday. Most of the folks who say this are people who don't fucking have any money, or maybe they have a little and like to think they have some. All I can say is "if you're going to talk the talk then walk the walk". If you're going to act like you have a golddigger problem too, then roll like someone who has the means to have one. Let me give you tips on this. People who are authorities on this subject are people who dont say "is there a cover?", people who dont say "where can we get cheap drinks?", people who don't say "i dont have money to go there right now (not talking about a particular club, talking about weekend trips to Vegas or whatever). People get so jealous and it pisses me off. Let me let you in on a little secret. Guys with money can spot a digger as soon as she walks in the room. It's like women have this intuition; we can see them. So what do we do with women like this, as a method of evening the playing field? She is out to play us, so we play them right back. We make them pay for our drinks or buy us dinner. Make her qualify herself to us first. I personally think we should do this with every woman. But with golddiggers, we string them along and allow them to think they might get something out of us. Then we blow them off because we have been on to them the whole time. People pawn it off on "oh she's just with him because of the money". You know what, you're right. She's with me because I can afford to educate myself, making me well-spoken, I can afford to join a gym and work out every day, I can afford to keep my appearance up. Stop fucking using that as an excuse to make yourself feel better about why you either a) can't get me or b) can't pull a decent looking girl.
In conclusion, I would not dream of telling anyone what to think. But I would tell someone to shut the hell up when they start saying this shit to other people. People whose opinion of me actually matters. Think it, know it if you think you actually do, but don't talk about shit that involves me unless its coming from me. If I tell you this girl is around because she likes the money, then tell everyone if you cant think of anything better to talk about. DONE!!!!!
OK, as an afterthought, I heard an alarming story today that really bothered me. Not going to go into details, I dont know all the details but judging from what I heard it was pretty pathetic. Friends are supposedly the people in life who matter most to us. Then why do some of us insist on treating our friends like dirt. Someone treated a friend like shit this weekend and the friend had bad things happen to them as a result. Come on people, what happened to giving a friend the shirt off your back?
COMPLETELY DONE NOW....I am now going to post some fun weekend pics.